Nigerian actor Uzor Arukwe recently opened up about his experience of having his girlfriend taken away by another woman. He revealed that this event deeply affected him, leading to challenges in communicating with women and instilling a sense of caution in his interactions.
During an interview, Uzor shared his thoughts, reflecting on how the situation shaped his approach to relationships moving forward. He emphasized the emotional impact it had on him, highlighting the difficulties he faced in trusting and connecting with women since that experience.
ââWe were dating and she fell in love with another woman. I could see what the girl was doing to her and she was telling me âBabe, are you seeing what this girl is doing?â and I was like âYeahâ. Then my girl goes to the loo. The girl follows my babe and my girl comes out and she rushes back and she was like âThis girl tried to kiss me in the bathroomâ and I was like â Did you kiss her back?â and she was like âNo!â. But I could tell it was a new experience for her. It was fresh.
The girl came back, she was feminine. She wasnât really a stud. She was a woman and she had done this too many times and she knew that that girl was going to fall for her because she came back and she looked at me d#ad in the eye and she was like âHi, whatâs up? Can I get a drink?â. She was very confident. She wasnât a guy and so I wasnât going to accost her and ask what are you doing with my girl.
I just thought it was nonsense and that this was going to d!e on arrival. Two weeks down the line, I saw two of them talking more and more on the phone, gigglingâŚThe next thing I heard was I am going to spend the weekend with this girl and I am like what about me? She was like she had been with me since and that she was like she just wanted to go and spend a harmless holiday with this girl. And that was it. After that holiday, the next thing I started seeing was âthe way I screamedâ, âthe way you did thisâ, and âyou finished meâ We just started having a lot of arguments about itâ
When asked how it made him feel to see it was a woman who âsnatchedâ his babe from him, Uzor said;
ââI felt veryâŚif it was a guy, we fit throw blowâŚI would hardly fight for a woman unless itâs worth it but I mean if it was a guy, I would have accosted him and said thatâs my girl, what are you doing with my girl? What am I going to tell her? I would go and tell a girl to leave my woman alone? I didnât know how to go about it.
For the longest time, I couldnât talk to girls because If I saw a girl, I would assume that they were dating. I just didnât like them. I was weary of them because it hit home. It hit my coreâ.